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- Randall Flagg
- Rep: 139
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
The point of mystery method is to take control of the situation. By interacting in a certain way, you control the frame of the conversation and the direction it goes. Women want to be with a man who is in control and takes direction; they just don't want to feel like a slut for doing so.
Anyone can get lucky and get laid the first night they meet someone, but that is known as Fool's Mate in the community. It takes no skill and is the epitome of "getting lucky". Women want to have sex just as much as men, they just have societal and evolutionary pressures that make them more restrained in doing so. Once you establish the attraction and comfort, you can move on to seduction. But don't get caught up or mislead into thinking this is a way to have sex with women. While it's possible, mystery method simply serves as way to be socially confident and engange and interact with different types of women.
Edit: Next time you're with a girl and she gives you some Last Minute Resistance by saying "I don't think we should be doing this or we're moving to fast" , freeze her out. Stop whatever it is you're doing, turn on the light and go check your email or put on discovery channel. When she asks you why you did that say that you respect a woman's right to say no, but when she does that it turns everything off inside of you. She'll instantly warm up to you and try to get things going again becuase you've shown that you understand discretion. As things get started again, simply state that nothing is going to happen that you both don't want to and you'll be in in no time. The previous is all a key part of the seduction portion of mystery method.
- monkeychow
- Rep: 661
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
Anyone who isn't believing what Randall is saying should really read the book I mentioned earlier.
Its called "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" - by Neil Strauss.
it is NOT a how-to-do-it guide - its Neil's autobiography in the pickup community.
Basicly he was a nerd author who stumbled into some of this stuff by accident and then studied their techniques and became a guru himself.
It was given to me as a gift, and when i read the back of the book i thought "what i load of bullshit" but decided to read it anyway as it sounded funny (and it mentioned he bumps into various celebraties and i was interested to see how it all developed). But since reading his book, its clear to me that this stuff is out there and real and exists, and it would appear works.
While I agree with Jessica that it may not help you live together for years..it will give a guy a chance to show a women he is a good guy when that woman may not normally give him time of day.
It sounds crazy but its really not. Men are turned on by certain things, and so are women. Its just pushing those buttons.
Do you disagree that 90% of men would be turned on if a woman walked into the room, walked up to him and began to undress? No because men are pre-programed to be attracted visually to females. Most men anwyay. Likewise there are things (mostly mental and behaviours) that will attract 90% of women and gain their initial interest.
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
This works for my roommate. He swears by these methods and gets more women in a week than I've seen in a year. Of course, I don't care. I'm happy in my current situation. That kind of stuff is great if it's what you're into, but it's not for me.
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
Exactly, it's just not something for every guy. It did help me build up my confidence though, and that was a feat in and by itself. Monkeychow: try it, really. It doesn't need to end with sex, just seeing the initial results (getting raport, her reaction to the kine stuff, etc...) is more than enough to build up your confidence, which might land you that long-term relationship you want or need.
For me, it was not about getting as much sex as possible, it was about boosting my confidence. And I have to say, it helped enormously: it gave me and edge in both my personal and professional life. It was not about the game, it was about pushing personal boundaries.
DTJ: you might be 'immune' to this, but trust me, most women are not. They don't all give in on the first date, but this definitely works over a couple of dates. Of course, you must select your targets according to your goals: it doesn't take a genius to know you wont be persuading a nun to give up her vow of celibacy 
. Strong principles and moral will always slow down the process, but it effectively builds a bond of trust which you can't distinguish from the real thing.
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
DTJ: you might be 'immune' to this, but trust me, most women are not.
Immune? She married the guy! 
I'm into this, and as if it hasn't been said enough before, it does work.
It's not a game per se, although that's part of it (then again, what isn't?), it's about developing yourself. Setting limits and identify your desires, finding yourself if you will, and then go for it.
All through out life we've been conditioned to think that some things 'just ain't for me'. Throwing that mindset in the trash is step one. Take a look at the people who have all that you want; what did they start out with that you didn't? That's right, nothing, except will.
And like has been said, it applies to so much more than dating and relationships. Be it career, health, money, studies...anything.
Funny things is, after learning about this I see it everywhere. Biographies, personal development books, politics, business, warfare etc. etc. All who have gone on to do great things use this method in some degree or another. You ask me it's a law of nature.
- metallex78
- Rep: 194
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
I just got a copy of this book from one of my friends and I'm about half way through it.
I haven't tried anything yet that I've read, but it's a pretty good read and I'd be willing to hear what more you have Randall, as I've had no luck with women lately! hehe
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
I've read DYD by D'Angelo and The Dating Black Book by Carlos Xuma. The latter is far superior in my opinion, but D'Angelo's dvd set is gold too (costs a bit though), his book is a good starter.
You could always check out some of the community forums, they should have some additional tips on material.
Remember, trying is the cornerstone of success. Or in the words of Wayne Gretzky "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take".
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
In the middle of a new book; John Alexanders 'How To Become An Alpha Male".
Another nice addition. Not much new as far as I can see yet, but nice to see variations on the same principles. That's probably the strongest feat of these books, they're all the same. No guesses or theories, just facts and truths.
I advice everyone interested in this to re-read and check out new stuff as often as possible. Not only do you memorize and understand better, but simply reading them gives you an incredibly positive boost, and that's often enough when dealing with women.
- Jungle Blood
- Rep: 3
Re: The Mystery Method/ The Game/ Seducing Women
And if those books fail on you - why not try a new way?
"20 Simple Ways Of Chloroform Usage (get laid in no time, no shit'n)" by Andrew Lardon
Or
"Chloroform'n 'n' Hunt'n" written by Heff Bubba.
Or
"Sedated Seduction" by former anesthetic specialist Felicia Dahl.
